Rini ‘Bee’

…dari hati… :D “Keep your heart free from hate, free your mind from worry, live simply, expect little, give much and fill your life with love have a break once in a while have a fun…”

Betapa Beruntungnya Saya…

Filed under: My Story... — rini-adis at 11:29 am on Tuesday, January 31, 2006

Hari ini….

Aku baru sadar.. Sudah banyak kejadian yang aku lewatin.. Aku sudah banyak ‘belajar’ dari orang-orang di sekitarku.. Ngga rugi rasanya masuk Psikologi.. Selain bisa belajar memahami orang, belajar ‘melihat’ dari sudut pandang orang lain.. Juga belajar untuk bisa ‘merasakan’ yang dirasakan orang lain… :)

Banyak kejadian seneng… walau ada juga kejadian sedih.. mengecewakan.. bahkan menyakitkan! Hidup ini berwarna ya? Dan banyak orang yang bertumbuh bersamaku serta ikut mewarnai kehidupanku…

keluargaku.. teman-temanku.. orang-orang yang mencintaiku…

Dari mereka aku belajar untuk menjadi ‘manusia yang lebih baik’.. dengan cara yang indah.. menyenangkan maupun menyakitkan…

Alhamdulillah..

Ketika aku ‘terjatuh’ dan berada di bawah.. ternyata masih ada orang-orang yang menyayangiku yang bersedia membantuku ‘berdiri’.. Ada yang bersedia untuk ‘menopang’ tubuhku, ‘memegang’ lenganku.., memberikan semangat padaku, memberikan air minum, bahkan.. ada yang memberikan senyumannya padaku.. agar aku merasa lebih baik.. Belum lagi yang mendoakan aku dari jauh..

Betapa beruntungnya saya.. dikelilingi orang-orang yang menyayangi saya..

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"Jika saja peristiwa ini adalah sebuah buku… Aku tidak perlu membaca referensinya untuk mengetahui apa isi dari buku itu… Aku sudah tahu apa isi dari buku itu… Halaman per halamannya sudah ada yang membukanya untukku tanpa aku berusaha membukanya.. hanya tergantung aku apakah aku mau membacanya atau tidak.. Buku ini sudah ada judulnya.. Aku sudah tahu isinya.. Hanya tinggal menunggu kata pengantarnya saja… Sekarang.. Kata pengantarnya pun sudah jadi… Jadi.. buku ini sudah lengkap.. Aku sudah selesai ‘membacanya’. Sekarang.. Apa yang harus aku lakukan…? Menyimpan buku ini… Atau membacanya dari awal..? Aku rasa… aku memilih untuk menyimpan buku ini… Dan mungkin.. tidak ingin membacanya lagi… Untuk saat ini… Entah sampai kapan…"

-rini bee- (1 Feb 2006)

I’ve Learned….

Filed under: Tentang Hidup.. — rini-adis at 8:23 pm on Thursday, January 26, 2006
Somebody wrote this:
I’ve learned….
that the best classroom in the world is at the feet
of an elderly
person.

I’ve learned….
that when you’re in love, it shows.

I’ve learned….
that just one person saying to me, "You’ve made my
day!" makes my
day.

I’ve learned….
that having a child fall asleep in your arms is one
of the most peaceful
feelings in the world.

I’ve learned….
that being kind is more important than being right.

I’ve learned….
that you should never say no to a gift from a child.

I’ve learned….
that I can always pray for someone when I don’t have
the strength to
help him in some other way.

I’ve learned….
that no matter how serious your life requires you to
be, everyone needs
a friend to act goofy with.

I’ve learned….
that sometimes all a person needs is a hand to hold
and a heart to
understand.

I’ve learned….
that simple walks with my father around the block on
summer nights
when I was a child did wonders for me as an adult.

I’ve learned….
that life is like a roll of toilet paper. The closer
it gets to the end,
the faster it goes.

I’ve learned….
that we should be glad God doesn’t give us
everything we ask for.

I’ve learned….
that money doesn’t buy class.

I’ve learned….
that it’s those small daily happenings that make
life so spectacular.

I’ve learned….
that under everyone’s hard shell is someone who
wants to be
appreciated and loved.

I’ve learned….
that the Lord didn’t do it all in one day. What
makes me think I can?

I’ve learned….
that to ignore the facts does not change the facts.

I’ve learned….
that when you plan to get even with someone, you are
only letting that
person continue to hurt you.

I’ve learned….
that love, not time, heals all wounds.

I’ve learned….
that the easiest way for me to grow as a person is
to surround myself
with people smarter than I am.

I’ve learned….
that everyone you meet deserves to be greeted with a
smile.

I’ve learned….
that there’s nothing sweeter than sleeping with your
babies and feeling
their breath on your cheeks.

I’ve learned….
that no one is perfect until you fall in love with
them.

I’ve learned….
that life is tough, but I’m tougher.

I’ve learned….
that opportunities are never lost; someone will take
the ones you miss.

I’ve learned….
that when you harbor bitterness, happiness will dock
elsewhere.

I’ve learned….
that I wish I could have told my Mom that I love her
one more time
before she passed away.

I’ve learned….
that one should keep his words both soft and tender,
because tomorrow
he may have to eat them.

I’ve learned….
that a smile is an inexpensive way to improve your
looks.

I’ve learned….
that I can’t choose how I feel, but I can choose
what I do about it.

I’ve learned….
that when your newly born grandchild holds your
little finger in his
little fist, that you’re hooked for life.

I’ve learned….
that everyone wants to live on top of the mountain,
but all the
happiness and growth occurs while you’re climbing
it.

I’ve learned….
that it is best to give advice in only two
circumstances; when it is
requested and when it is a life-threatening
situation.

I’ve learned….
that the less time I have to work with, the more
things I get done.

The Smallest Moments

Filed under: Tentang Hidup.. — rini-adis at 9:15 pm on Tuesday, January 3, 2006

The smallest moments

In the smallest moments come the biggest opportunities. In the most ordinary events and endeavors come the most extraordinary possibilities for joy.

In the quiet, ordinary days, while doing routine, ordinary things, the real and lasting substance of life grows and grows. Look around on a perfectly ordinary day, and if you look with your heart you’ll see enough abundance to last a thousand lifetimes.

For in truth, no moment is really ordinary. Every moment is filled with endless possibility.

The quiet, simple moments are when you realize how you truly extraordinary it is to be alive. The unassuming, routine days are the days when you can most fully express the subtance and goodness of who you are.

Treasure those days, and value those simple moments as you are living them. The more fully you put yourself into the ordinary moments, the more value they will bring.

If you seek life’s treasures only in the extraordinary, spectacular tomes, you’ll miss most of the best possibilities that could have been yours. Open up to the value of the small, simple moments, and that value will richly fill you.

– Ralph Marston

Kesalahan…

Filed under: About... hm.. — rini-adis at 9:47 am on Tuesday, January 3, 2006

KESALAHAN…

Ketika aku melontarkan satu pertanyaan “Kesalahan teman apa yang tidak dapat dimaafkan…?” banyak sekali jawaban yang aku dapat…

Ada yang bilang…

-       pengkhianatan

-       menusuk dari belakang

-       mengadu domba

-       me’nodai’ kepercayaan

-       musuh dalam selimut…

dan jawaban2 lain yang aku rasa sangat erat kaitannya dengan pengalaman pribadi orang2 yang aku tanyai… J

hingga aku menemukan satu jawaban…

“Tidak ada kesalahan yang tidak dapat dimaafkan…

semua kesalahan bisa dimaafkan…”

Bagaimana dengan teman2… ?

Kesalahan apa yang tidak dapat dimaafkan?